Marriage on the Rock.

I have been married now for over 30 years. And Happily too. But naturally it has had it`s up`s and downs, don`t get me wrong. The Bible says in "Romans 7:2-3 For example, by law a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive, but if her husband dies, she is released from the law of marriage. So then, if she marries another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress. But if her husband dies, she is released from that law and is not an adulteress, even though she marries another man." When we marry, it`s forever. unless adultery is the problem, according to the Bible. And then their is always forgiveness. But in all cases if their is a problem, Professional Christian help is advised. In my case, God put us together. A mentally ill person and a non mentally ill person. I believe that God brings things together and Satan separates things apart. So that means that both of us being Christians, Following God, trying to be like Him, will bring us together more and in turn create a stable marriage. That's what happened to me. You see we were made for each other, God did not make a mistake. Funny as it may seem, she needed a mentally ill husband, committed to God and I needed her, committed to God, to Help each other grow in the Lord the best possible. On the other hand, without God, we at one time were going to get divorced. God created Marriage. He knows exactly how it`s going to work right. He also created the human being and he knows how we will work properly too and what we need to grow. When we follow the Holy Bible with all our heart for the needs in our lives, their is only one direction it can go, Success ! God will put other Christians in your path too, to help guide you. There are also many books and Bible studies you can get and attend, to better your marriage also. But we men must remember, we are the head of the home, don't expect anything from your wife, give her everything without conditions and be the first example of what you expect in your home. Give her unconditional love, and you, get everything you need from God. One of the most biggest mistakes couples make in a marriage is to depend on each other for all there needs. We must depend on God for everything and God will use your husband or wife to give you what you need. But always remember, we as humans will always fail each other, but God will never fail us. So also be filled with the Holy Spirit so you can give without conditions and in turn not take away from each other. We are never alone with God in our lives. Today I try to be the best Godly leader of my home, always trying to set the example so others can follow the Jesus in me because He is the one we should follow.