He is in Control.

It's hard to think and accept sometimes but God knows what He is doing and allowing in our lives. And it all happens to get to know Him, or if you know Him, then to get you closer to Him. But sometimes there is the unexplained, and only God knows the answer to those things. Those things that nobody knows the why ? Trust Him and seek Him in all your pain and joys. God is in control not us. One thing is for sure, for what it's worth, When man creates whatever things that goes against His word, it will fail. We must not get stuck though, on those things that we cannot explain. When it happens, don't drill your thoughts on them, but think it out, ask God what do you want me to do or learn from this, and He will show you. But make sure the answer is from God, it must match God's word and the way God does things. Get counsel too from mature Christians, make sure it's a solid Biblical answer. But if there is no answer, don't fret and put it on the shelf and God will give you the answer later or He may not. Somethings are sometimes better unknown. God knows what is Good for our growth. Trust Him in all things and in all situations. Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.