God is working in our lives everyday. Being confident of this very thing, that He who has begun a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ. Philippians 1: 6. God has a plan for our lives, that is for sure. "For I know the thoughts that I think towards you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope." Jeremiah 29: 11. He created us For His purposes only. " For by Him all things were created that are in heaven and that are on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or principalities or powers. All things were created through Him and for Him. " Colossians 1: 16.
God definitely has a plan and purpose for our lives and we know it's not our plan but His. And whatever His will is for our lives is what we should be praying for. So that in any direction that we go, it must line up with God's word, it must be Biblical. For example, God does not direct us to do things that bring disunity, but directs us into genuine unity, peace, love, hope, and many more things, but the one thing I like the best of the many things Jesus gives us is a sound mind. Following Jesus with the help of many mature brothers or sisters depending if you are a man or female, being counciled buy the same sex preferably. God will heal our minds. We may need medication in the process. But in any case we must follow our doctors orders too. So the plan He has for us must be Biblical and if it is we must not give up as we wait too. there is a process for God's work in us. God does not do things in a sloppy and disorganized way. God is a God of Order and does things perfectly. Sometimes we must wait to do what we are called to do as God determines the perfect time. Joseph waited 13 years, Abraham waited 25 years, Moses waited 40 years and Jesus waited 30 years. So if God is making you wait, you are definitely in good company. So remember we were created for Him to do His will and not ours, and wait on His time for the plan He has for us, no matter how long it takes. It's a process and God has the perfect recipe of events and preparations to make it happen His way, the correct way.